Somtimes I Wonder....

love is the best thing that can happen in a person's life, or may be the worst. love itself is an anomaly of life. when a person says "I LOVE YOU",does he/she really mean it? or is it a random lull momentary expression. if "i love you" itself was not enough, "i love u foreverrr" is another illusionary/bluffing expression blurted out.

if your love is a success, fine, you are the luckiest person and your life attains flamboyancy. but if you arent successful, your life has been backfired. your life runs on the notes of agony for atleast a while. before getting committed in a relation, just make it sure that it is the right person you are with ,otherwise i think one is doing the most obnoxious thing in life and placing his/her life in a precarious situation.

when in a relation,someone dumps the other one usually. i just want to know their psychology that comes into the picture during that period. do they at all have a remorseful feeling when they are doing this to the other? or is it just a random reckless decision without pondering the consequences. do they atleast feel pity for the other person???
only he/she who have done this can answer the above questions precisely.

the most forgettable moment comes when the other says ,"IT's ALL OVER". your heart starts beating fast,your head starts spinning,everything seems eerie-weerie,the moment seems disordered,u might even blurt out,"what the f***?",you will wish you werent there with your hands n legs shaking,you will wish you hadnt heard those last 3 words and it was a bad and cynical dream which was never meant to protrude into reality.

but when "it's all over",the other person's statement is apt. he/she means it. and you have been left with the scars of that atrocious relation. it's natural that we are so called human beings and at some point we break down and tears are shed for that someone,when we are noone in their lives anymore.and just say,how many eons are you going to sit and shed tears???

i think it is a tumult waste of time,thinking about that someone,who was never yours. its the absolute truth. there is no point pinning the hope that they may come back. no one is going to come back for you mate, and its high time you move ahead in life ,otherwise, you will get run over by life if you cease to move.

there are also a genre of depressing scums who like to live in that web of agony,distress,and like to entangle their lives with that so-called depression due to a powerful love failure.soorry,i'm being just a bit scornful.but they start living the life of loners. the world is at one end and they are at the opposite. i have met quite some of them. nothing seems to penetrate their thick skulls. what you say seems abominable to them.they want to reside in the world of mirages and want to hum and listen to those moronous filmi songs for the rest of their lives.

giving your life again a jolt and setting it up in motion is fine,but those feelings and emotions which we possessed for that someone,where do they go and what do you do about it?sometimes those peculiar good memories come back and you still wish this shouldnt have happened and why did this happen to me only?well,i havent got any answers for the above and i myself feel mislead by the experience.

well,love is a part of life,but not life itself. the only respite is to move ahead and accept the fact that everything happens for a reason. and hopefully someone better is awaiting us on the path of life ahead.... :):):)